Questions ~ Where to from here?

Tomorrow I have an appointment with my specialist, I need answers, I need to know what is going on. I am give it my all, I don't drink, smoke, or live life hard. I have cut my coffee intake to half a cup a day and still I am not getting anything in return. I know it's a matter of time and to just keep trying, but to keep doing the same thing over and over again is just not working.


So here are my questions that I will be putting to FS tomorrow. 

1) Why did my cycle break through with my last HRT FET cycle? 
~ On DPO12/CD28 I started to spot and that continued 

~ On DPO 14-15/CD30-31I started bleeding

2) Why is it not working, is it too soon after my miscarriage?  Should I wait longer?

3) Is it possible to have a BT to check progesterone and any other levels of anything else every 2 days or so from transfer - just so we can start to track what is actually going on?

4)  Is there any other medications that I can try that might help? eg. pregnyl and progesterone after any future transfers just to help out a bit more ?

~ Aspirin ? 

~ Vitamins?  

I am currently taking 

*Elevit 

* Folic Acid 5mg

* Fish Oil

* CoQ10

* Vitamin E

* Kelp

5) My cervix

 ~ Is there a problem with it? If so what can be done about it?

 ~ How much scaring is there?

 ~ If it needs to be clamped next time, can it please be numbed first?

6) Progesterone 

~ What were my levels for each cycle? 

~ Do I need more support?

7) Testing 

~ Should I be tested for anything else? 

~ ANA Antibodies (blood test), NK cells (endometrial biopsy), clotting disorders etc. 

8) What quality are my embryos?  

Is there anything else that I should be asking? something that I am forgetting? 

I am not expecting much to come from this appointment, I am betting on him saying that we will just keep doing what we are doing and see what happens with my next cycle. I just need him to know that I am not happy to keep doing it by the clinic's schedule anymore. We are not all the same and should not be treated as such.